When I say I am from Long Island most people automatically assume that I come from a Jewish neighborhood. The truth is, however, that I do not know of any practicing Jews in my town, so you can imagine my shock at encountering so many Jews here on campus. My Jewish identity has been formed throughout these past four years and I have been provided the tools to continue this process.
Traveling to Israel with birthright israel my freshman year was an incredible experience which ignited a spark inside of me. I remember thinking on the plane to Israel that I had to enjoy every moment because I would only be there ten days. Upon my arrival, however, I realized that I will be returning to Israel throughout my lifetime.
I have marched for Israel in Washington, DC and New York with fellow Binghamton University students. Other memorable moments include the many Shabbat dinners, Yom HaAtzmaut celebrations, and Yom HaShoah vigils. Even the simple, everyday interactions with other Jewish students has made an impact on me.
I studied in Rome, Italy last semester and was slightly apprehensive because I was uncertain about the Jewish community’s presence in a predominantly Catholic country. Upon my arrival, however, I went to The Synagogue of Rome for Shabbat and met Italian-Jews who invited me to attend dinner with their family. In Venice I attended a Shabbat meal with Chabad overlooking a rio, and sang the same songs I sing at Chabad of Binghamton. In retrospect I realize that many of my most memorable moments abroad include my interactions with Jews. There is a cliché that part of the reason college students study abroad is to “find themselves”. I find it ironic that traveling to a Catholic country allowed me to really connect with my Jewish identity.
Chabad House has always supported me in my endeavors at Binghamton University and elsewhere, whether it be auditioning for a play, learning the Parsha, or connecting me with Chabad of Rome during my time abroad. Chabad’s resolute acceptance of all students and non-judgemental attitude is unmatchable. I remember how welcomed I felt at Chabad House and on campus as well. They work from such positive energy and enabled me to see the potential in myself. Chabad has taught me about Judaism, provided an outlet for spiritual growth, and has instilled a foundation to enable me to continue this journey.
My advice to underclassmen is to keep and open mind and take advantage of the multitude of spiritual, educational and social opportunities that Chabad offers. Most likely such gifts will not be as easily accessible after leaving the college setting. One secret to succeeding in college is to learn how to manage time. Trust that time spent at Chabad is time well spent. It is also important to engage other Jewish students in Chabad’s activities. For example, at a Shabbos meal do not hesitate to offer a seat to someone who may not know anyone at Chabad. Everyone must do their part in making sure all students feel welcomed at Chabad.