How has your collegiate experience at Binghamton affected your
Jewish identity?
I definitely have a stronger sense of who I am as a Jew and an American. Because my parents were both naturalized citizens, (a German Jew and an Israeli Jew) I always felt that I didn’t fit in, even among American Jews. Here there is such a range; Israelis, Russians, Americans, and second generation types like myself. I could see the similarities now instead of just seeing the differences. I’ve also become a lot more open to praying where the melodies, cadence, and
style might be different. I am more comfortable with going somewhere new and am more patient with differences. Cliché as it may sound, it makes your experience that much richer. I loved singing during supper at Chabad!
Which event(s) were most memorable/meaningful/helpful/enjoyable for you as a Jew?
I guess there were a few really special times, but so many small things as well; lighting the tin menorah at my apartment that was given out free for Chanukah (it was probably the first time I’d done so in many years). The sound and smell as I shook the lulav and etrog in the union; even now I can hear the unique switch! switch! of the leaves. Sitting quietly in the Union at 5 a.m. after my turn reading the names of those killed in the Holocaust. My mother was a Holocaust survivor and I felt this incredible sense of gratitude for my life. And there was an empathy and understanding among those keeping vigil that I’ve rarely experienced.
How would you describe the role of Chabad House within the greater Jewish experience at Binghamton University?
I guess the best word would be enablers. Chabad provides the means and opportunity to become involved, to participate, to learn, and to enjoy all the facets of a Jewish life. The folks here are amazingly organized considering the size of the Jewish population they serve on campus in Binghamton.